He cheats on you and you go crying to his friend.
He assures you that he would talk some sense
into him. He cheats again, and you end up in his
sister’s arms crying like your life has been
brought to an abrupt end. She still promises to
talk to him and yet there is no change. He
cheats again, and this time you cannot take it.
You go crying before his mum, and she pleads
with you to be patient with him! He keeps on
cheating, you keep on crying and they keep on
talking. Girl, for how long??? It doesnt matter if
he cries along with you too. Apologies mean
nothing when he keeps doing what he is sorry
One beautiful day, his mum asks to see
you and just when you think you want to hear
something beautiful. She drops the bomb shell.
‘Please, I really want you to move on with your
life and forget about my son. Another woman is
pregnant for him. . Ladies, please wake up from
your slumber and face it;
*You are getting
married to a ‘child’ If they have to keep talking
to him about you.
*Apologies do not mean
anything if he keeps doing what he is sorry
*Ohh please, respect yourself! Do you
have to keep talking about your relationship to
everyone? Have you considered what marriage
will be like?
*You are more than an option.
Even if you have wasted a good number of years on
him, it is still better than wasting your entire
future. It hurts,i know but isnt it better than
hurting everyday of your life? You aint safe with
a cheating man. Yeah, even the girl who got
pregnant for him isnt too.. The fact that there’s
no perfect man on earth doesnt mean that you
should end up with a beast. There are still
decent and responsible men who stick to their
vows so do not die in the hands of a cheating
man. Do not buy into the myth that all men
cheat! Not all men do.