Do girls ever agree to be side chicks to guys? Except men who are rich or celebrities. Ladies are ok with being side chicks, then again i could be wrong. For those of you who are currently side chicks, or those of you are considering it here are a few tangible reasons to desist from that position

 

1. THE CHANCES OF YOU BEING PROMOTED TO GIRLFRIEND IS VERY LOW
Sure, the fact that his relationship is in such poor shape that he’s cheating means that it probably won’t last very long. But even if he does break up with his girlfriend, don’t count on him running into your arms when he does. More likely than not, he’ll have had his fill of drama from the breakup and will want to start fresh with another person “a new person”.

2. YOU’D EVENTUALLY GET CAUGHT
No self-respecting girlfriend or wife hasn’t already figured out her boyfriend’s iPhone password. There’s going to come a day when her curiosity gets the better of her. If you think that it’s only him that will feel the wrath, you’re wrong. You can bet she’ll come at you with full force.

 

3. IT WILL SLOWLY DRIVE YOU CRAZY
You’ll try as hard as you can not to think about his “main” girlfriend, but no matter what you do, you won’t be able to get her out of your mind. You might even find yourself in one of those Facebook-stalking black holes where you spend hours trying to figure out everything about her and trying to suppress feelings of jealousy. Not the most emotionally healthy way to spend a weekend

 

4. YOUR REPUTATION WILL DIVE
The Internet has made the world a much smaller place, and your reputation will follow you around. When you’re the “side chick,” you risk creating enemies, and that’s never going to have a positive impact on your reputation.

 

5. YOU’RE ENCOURAGING A BAD BEHAVIOR
Guys do this only because they can get away with it. As women, we need to keep our expectations high and make clear that this “fad” is not acceptable.

 

6. YOU’RE THE GIRL THAT OTHER GIRLS HATE
Being a woman means that you’re part of a sisterhood, and there are some things we should never put each other through. Yes, you’re single. Yes, the guy is at fault, too. But karma’s a bitch, and you wouldn’t want another girl sneaking around with your boyfriend or husband, would you?

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